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Part 2: Is Mindfulness Safe for Everyone?

Part 2: Is Mindfulness Safe for Everyone?

In Part 1 of our Summer 2021 Mindfulness Blog Series, we learned what Mindfulness is and is not.  We also answered the question about its link to religion.  We encourage you to read all the blogs within the series for a comprehensive understanding.   

Today we would like to focus on the question of, Is mindfulness a safe practice for everyone?  It certainly appears on the surface that mindfulness would be a safe exercise to learn and for many individuals it is, however, there are some important considerations.  Below we will explore the first three of six, in hopes of learning the best way to practice mindfulness and whether further thought should be explored before jumping into using it.   

 

A clear definition of mindfulness should be understood.  

  • Before practicing any new exercises, it is always a wise choice to fully understand what is involved.  If you are learning from a life coach, mental health therapist, or yoga instructor there is usually a discussion and confirmation that the individual understands and would like to learn mindfulness.  Always ask for clarity if it is not shared.  
  • On the other hand, there are circumstances in which individuals, including our youth, who find themselves in a scholastic or community group where it is presented without a great deal of explanation or opportunity for having questions answered.  And in some cases, there is no way for the individual to opt out.  This can cause some unintentional harm to a participant, so should be seriously considered prior to introducing mindfulness.  

Meditation is NOT the only way to present mindfulness.   

  • Because meditation is one of the first things that comes to a person’s mind when they hear mindfulness, they may not be willing to try this practice.  Although meditation can be a very helpful mindfulness tool, some individuals will reject the concept of mindfulness all together if they think meditation is required. 
  • Closing eyes is not a necessity when practicing mindfulness.  If an individual is resistant to closing their eyes during meditation or another mindfulness exercise that is perfectly fine.  Focal points within a room or a favorite drawing or photo is a great way to focus the mind and eliminate visual distractions.  

The person helping you to learn mindfulness should be practicing it as well.  

  • When learning mindfulness from another individual it is a very appropriate question to ask if they are practicing mindfulness.  It is very important to have experienced the feelings and challenges that go along with perfecting the skill of mindfulness.  If the leader is not doing so on a regular basis, they will have trouble guiding others. 
  • An effective mindfulness leader will acknowledge that there are many ways to practice mindfulness and guide each person into a specialized plan that will allow them to be successful.   

We hope you will join us in the coming weeks for Part 3 of our Summer 2021 Mindfulness Blog Series, where will highlight the last three considerations to insure safe mindfulness practice. 

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Book: Hosea Plays On

Book: Hosea Plays On

Blog post written and submitted by Kayla Davitt, MT-BC 

Imagine it’s a bright, sunny day in the middle of the summer. You travel to an open-air market to do your weekly shopping for fruits and vegetables and peruse the stalls of local business owners selling jams, soaps, candles and other miscellaneous items. As you enter the market, you hear the unmistakable sound of an alto saxophone coming from the area of a popular coffee shop. You make your way to the coffee shop and find a crowd of people watching and listening as a man plays his saxophone on the sidewalk. In the city of Rochester, NY this man was Hosea Missouri Taylor Jr.: the musician that inspired Kathleen M. Blasi’s newest storybook Hosea Plays On.

Hosea Plays On tells the story of Hosea Missouri Taylor Jr., a man who frequented the Rochester Public Market and sat outside of a coffee shop in all types of weather to play his saxophone for the market-goers. Blasi’s newest storybook describes how Hosea Taylor played his saxophone at the market to earn money. However, he did not use this money for himself. He used the money to buy instruments for neighborhood children, hoping to pass on to them his love of music. Hosea can be seen paying attention to the smallest of sounds as he travels to and from the market – he hears the music all around him. He does not take a single moment for granted.

At the end of this storybook, there is an author’s note to describe how important Hosea Missouri Taylor Jr. was to the culture of the city of Rochester. The note starts out with a quote from Rochester’s current mayor, Lovely Warren: “There wasn’t a place he went where he didn’t carry his saxophone… It was his ministry. When people probably felt at their lowest, he would come and deliver a song.” Kathleen M. Blasi’s note states:

“Hosea Missouri Taylor Jr. (1948-2016) was a musician and community advocate in Rochester, New York. He played several instruments, including the saxophone, clarinet, trumpet, and flute. In order to help elevate the quality of life for those around him, he shared his passion with countless people, most of them strangers.

As a resident of Rochester, Hosea’s goal was to keep neighborhood kids active in positive ways. Hosea not only purchased instruments for children, he also offered them free music lessons. Every summer, those lessons culminated in a neighborhood parade. Hosea shared his gift with other city residents by playing on the streets and in the City of Rochester Public Market. One of his great joys in life was meeting people, and the Market served as a favorable venue. Many who routinely visited the Market developed relationships with Hosea after hearing his music.

While Hosea and the setting of this story are real, other characters are made up. Nate, the crowd in the marketplace, and Ms. May all embody the spirit of Hosea’s community. In the grief that followed Hosea’s death in February 2016, Evan Lowenstein, one of the Market’s administrators, said: ‘Hosea was awe-inspiring to kids who watched him play. There’s a void without him here.’

And yet, through the people he touched with his generosity, friendship, passion, and joy, Hosea continues to play on.”

When reading this story with your child, feel free to discuss with them Hosea’s story. You can show them a video of Hosea playing his saxophone on one of the downtown streets in Rochester. Discuss with them the importance of being involved in their community and how to spread kindness throughout their day, just like Hosea did when he played for the people at the Public Market. Ask them how they would spread kindness and compassion like Hosea.

 

If you’re looking for more background information about what inspired the author to write this story, watch this video from Kathleen M. Blasi.

We hope you enjoy reading this storybook with your children this summer! If you wish to purchase this book on Amazon, you can do so here.

Happy reading!

Part 1: What is Mindfulness?

Part 1: What is Mindfulness?

Over the last two decades the word “mindfulness” has been used frequently by people all over the world.  With its original roots in Eastern Culture as a core tenet in Buddhism, and massive spread into Western Culture’s practices of psychotherapy, acceptance-based therapy, as well as yoga and meditation practices – the concept of mindfulness can be confusing.   

Is this something I want to learn or use?  If I participate in mindfulness does this mean that I am practicing the Buddhist faith?  Is it a safe practice for all people?  Is there anything I should be aware of before beginning mindfulness? What exactly is mindfulness? 

We look forward to exploring these questions and more in our four-part Summer 2021 Mindfulness Blog Series.  In this first blog we want to start with the question: What is Mindfulness?  Depending on who you speak with this definition may look a little different, however most mental health therapists will provide their clients with a similar definition.  

Mindfulness is an awareness of thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and behavioral urges.  

By learning mindfulness, we are empowered to be in charge of ourselves in a different way.  It has been proven that awareness assists in emotional regulation.  Mindfulness can be practiced using one or more of these complimentary activities: eating, walking, laying down, engaging in relaxing breathing, listening to music, completing an art project, coloring, woodworking, watching TV, driving, working, etc.  In some cases, individuals bring mindfulness into their prayer life, noticing when they become distracted and returning their attention back to the prayer.   

Many who come to us for a visit associate mindfulness only with meditation and religion, but it is much broader than that.  If you participate in mindfulness, it does not mean that you are practicing Buddhism or any other religion.  Mindfulness is a practice of being aware of the present moment regardless of the activity the person is engaged in A few of the many benefits of adopting mindfulness are a more relaxed body, a focused mind, the ability to resist an urge, and for some handle a big emotion more successfully.   

But with all this goodness comes the reality that mindfulness is not always safe for everyone, especially when experienced in group environments or when mental health challenges cause this practice to intensify disassociation or be thrown back into a traumatic event.  We look forward to sharing more about the importance of using mindfulness in a safe way in our upcoming blogs in the four-part Summer 2021 Mindfulness Blog Series.   

 

 

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Book: The Star Spangled Banner

Book: The Star Spangled Banner

Blog post written and submitted by Kayla Davitt, MT-BC 

Around this time of year, many of us are preparing to celebrate the 4th of July. Fireworks, barbecues, and parades are just some of the ways Americans like to celebrate the birth of their country. One of my favorite traditions is to travel back to my hometown and attend an event called “Concert in the Park.” The local orchestra sets up a stage in one of the biggest parks in the North Country and performs patriotic songs while cannon blasts are fired. It’s incredible! The concert always starts with the orchestra playing “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Some years there is a singer, some years the audience serves as the choir. I don’t know about you, but even though I’ve heard and sung our national anthem many times, I don’t know the meaning behind many of the lyrics. However, that all changed when I picked up this wonderful book illustrated by Peter Spier simply titled The Star-Spangled Banner.

First of all, I think it’s important to note that “The Star-Spangled Banner” was first a poem written by Francis Scott Key. According to www.history.com, “the anthem’s history began the morning of September 14, 1814, when an attorney and amateur poet named Francis Scott Key watched U.S. soldiers — who were under bombardment from British naval forces during the War of 1812 — raise a large American flag over Fort McHenry in Baltimore, Maryland.” The melody for the song was derived from a popular English song called “The Anacreontic Song.” In the years after the War of 1812 ended, “The Star-Spangled Banner” became a popular patriotic song in the United States. In 1916, the current president (Woodrow Wilson) signed an executive order that declared “The Star-Spangled Banner” as the national anthem. However, it wasn’t until 1931 that the United States Congress passed a law officially declaring “The Star-Spangled Banner” the national anthem.

 

Many people may not know this, but Francis Scott Key actually wrote a total of four verses to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” We only use one verse today, but I think it’s important to acknowledge the song in its entirety. Here are the other 3 verses of the song:

 

On the shore, dimly seen thro’ the mist of the deep,
Where the foe’s haughty host in dread silence reposes,
What is that which the breeze, o’er the towering steep.
As it fitfully blows, half conceals, half discloses?
Now it catches the gleam of the morning’s first beam,
In full glory reflected, now shines in the stream.
’Tis the star-spangled banner. Oh! long may it wave,
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!

And where is that band who so vauntingly swore,
That the havoc of war and the battle’s confusion
A home and a country should leave us no more?
Their blood has washed out their foul footstep’s pollution.
No refuge could save the hireling and slave,
From the terror of flight, or the gloom of the grave,
And the star-spangled banner in triumph doth wave,
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave.

Oh! Thus be it ever, when freemen shall stand,
Between their loved homes and the war’s desolation,
Blest with vict’ry and peace, may the Heav’n-rescued land,
Praise the Pow’r that hath made and preserved us a nation.
Then conquer we must, for our cause is just,
And this be our motto – ‘In God is our trust.’
And the star-spangled banner in triumph doth wave,
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave.”

 

Listening to the song in its entirety may give you more a feel of what Francis Scott Key was trying to express. Below is one rendition of the song that I very much enjoy.

There is a lot of information in these four verses, as well as a lot of vocabulary! When reading this book with your child, it may be helpful to explain the history of the song to them. Isaac Asimov wrote an article in 2017 that explains, in detail, the history of the song and he also describes the song in its entirety. If you wish to read this article, you can find it here.

We hope you enjoy using this storybook with your child as we wrap up this school year!

If you’d like to purchase the book, click this link

Happy reading!

5 Songs to Get You in the Summer Mood

5 Songs to Get You in the Summer Mood

Summer is just around the corner, and this year brings a lot to celebrate. You may have finished up your first year of virtual teaching or homeschooling. Maybe you can finally travel to see family that you’ve been missing! If staying home is in your plans, don’t hesitate to turn the music up loud and simply enjoy the sunshine. Upstate is here to share five songs that are tried and true to get you in the summer mood.

1) Soak Up the Sun by Sheryl Crow

If you’re hit with a rainy day this time of year, it’s easy to get sucked back into the wintertime blues. Soak up this melody and let this classic boost your mood!

 

2) I’m Comin’ Out from the Trolls Soundtrack

With this throwback mashup you’re bound to get everyone in the house up and dancing! Even the kids will know it if they’ve seen the hit movie Trolls. Schools out and I’m Comin’ Out is a great way to kick off summer vacation!

3) All Summer Long by Kid Rock

If you’re a fan of country or rock music, this one’s for you! Here in the Rochester area, we are all about lake life. Close your eyes and picture a day fishing from a dock or floating on an inner tube with your feet in the cool water. Those days aren’t that far away!

4) Summer of 69′ by Bryan Adams

What were you doing the summer that this song came out? Were you working your first summer job? Or, maybe you were still a kid enjoying carefree days of no school. If this song was before your time it’s still bound to conjure some memories of summers past.

5) Walking on Sunshine by Katrina and the Waves

Last but not least we have a summer anthem like no other. If you know a music therapist, chances are they have played this one a time or two to bring the sunshine into music.

We hope one or more of these songs brings you some joy this summer! For many, summer 2021 is a time to celebrate and make up for the difficulties of 2020. No matter where you are or what you’re doing this year, turn up that radio dial, dance, and sing along.

Book: The Night Before Summer Vacation

Book: The Night Before Summer Vacation

Excitement. Anticipation. Thoughts of the beach, the sand, and the sun. I can remember when I was younger how excited I would be on the night before a summer vacation trip – I wouldn’t be able to sleep! For many years, my family would take weeklong summer vacations to different spots on the east coast: Myrtle Beach, Williamsburg, and the Outer Banks (to name a few). The night before getting on the road was almost always filled with chaos: last minute packing, laundry, loading the car, and going through checklists, much like the characters in Natasha Wing’s The Night Before Summer Vacation.

Music: The Key to Road Trip Survival

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Book: Hosea Plays On

Book: Hosea Plays On

Imagine it’s a bright, sunny day in the middle of the summer. You travel to an open-air market to do your weekly shopping for fruits and vegetables and peruse the stalls of local business owners selling jams, soaps, candles and other miscellaneous items. As you enter the market, you hear the unmistakable sound of an alto saxophone coming from the area of a popular coffee shop. You make your way to the coffee shop and find a crowd of people watching and listening as a man plays his saxophone on the sidewalk. In the city of Rochester, NY this man was Hosea Missouri Taylor Jr.: the musician that inspired Kathleen M. Blasi’s newest storybook Hosea Plays On.